Meet Women
You know, guys ask me about " finding a woman " and "how to understand women " and similar things frequently .
But the real truth of the matter for all of these kind of questions is there is no "dating guru" that can give you any better advice than good old "experience".
But by now you are saying "but how do I get experience when I don't know where to go or how to meet women?"
You do it by meeting women and approaching women any way you can in large droves. It is called serial dating. And when I authored my first book "How I Got 700 Dates In One Year" it caused a little controversy.
First of all, let me explain that I am very big on monogamy and have never cheated on a wife or girlfriend, but when I am between relationships I am equally big on multiple or serial dating.
Now I would be the first one to agree with the fact that a person who "multiple"¯ or "serial"¯ dates with no aim of ever doing anything else would have at least some major "relating"¯ issues.
However, serial and multiple dating is not only not necessarily a bad thing, if done with a purpose to learn about the opposite sex, it is a good thing. By heavy and constant interaction with the opposite sex we can learn about both the opposite sex and about ourselves.
Do you remember what good old mom and dad use to say to you when you were a teenager?
They said: "Don't get serious with one person, you need to date and meet a lot of girls/guys."¯
Now believe it or not, this teenage advice can also be very good advice for adults.
First of all, most adults never followed their parent's suggestion and dated lots of people. Most people seem to have a pattern of hooking up with the first acceptable¯ person who shows them some real interest.
Unfortunately, there is a big difference between "acceptable¯" and "ideal"¯ and also regrettably most people usually continue this habit of hooking up with the first "acceptable"¯ person who comes along well into maturity.
We call this "compromising"¯ or "settling"¯ and in the last analysis it leads to dissatisfaction in relationships, and a failure to understand the opposite sex.
Most of us didn't realize when we were teenagers that there are all sorts of people in the world - different personalities, different likes and dislikes. We didn't realize that if we met enough people we actually could meet someone who was exactly right for us.
Most of us didn't even understand our own temperament and what what would be a good match for us. We based our ideas of what a good match was off of television and movies and magazines. You see most of us just lacked experience with the opposite sex.
But the cure for all of this is not very complex. You see, when you meet and date a lot of different people a natural learning process emerges. It is called experience. No matter how dumb you are, you figure it out sooner or later. Some people sooner. Some people later. You can learn about anything this way, and there is no better teacher.
And believe it or not, that is all us "dating gurus" have ever done to meet women and attract women . We have just gone out and got a lot of experience.
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